Today when I was running to the office (keep it a secret -I was late again) a guy told me my laces weren’t tight. Surely I stopped and bent to see that my laces were tight. Oh, Boy, today is April Fool’s Day. He gave me a smile and I went on running to the office.

Making fun, telling jokes, playing tricks - who doesn’t like this? (more…)

Going Dutch at a business lunch is normal. But what about going Dutch at a date? Oops, this suggestion can make women fury. The thing is that all the discussions about equality and feminism seem forgotten when paying for a dinner at a romantic encounter. Maybe in the Netherlands it’s quite traditional to offer your date to go halves on a bill, but American women won’t like the idea.

So what’s wrong? Should men foot bills on their own or should they try to share a dinner cost? Due to the recent stats they’D BETTER not to mention going Dutch to someone they want to see again. And women in their turn, shouldn’t make a scene - when men want to pay for a dinner, a trip, entertainment on their own. If they do, it’s like a signal for males - this gal isn’t interested in me. Dating experts recommend women to make a suggestion of splitting the bill on the third date, if men agree, of course. (more…)

Men are making jokes about women, and women neither want to be behind and share jokes about men. Is this normal? So many people from the both camps seem concerned about this. Some simply don’t like them and refuse listening. Some feel humiliated and disrespected. Some get so angry that it’s safer to clear out. How do you think it’s ok for men and women to make gender jokes?

There is always a reason of everything. As for gender jokes they are based on stereotypes, most researchers are sure. Scientists call them gender-based jokes. Men find blonde jokes more amusing than women do. But according to stats women find some jokes about females even funnier than men do, while men don’t like jokes about themselves. (more…)

Is getting close without living together possible? Or cohabitation is inevitable in modern society?

Cohabitation, or living together without marriage, has become a common thing in the US, Canada, the UK, and all over the world. Only Muslim countries seem to stand away from modern changes of society structure.

It’s natural to live together without marriage. It’s a good way to get to know each other very close and to see whether you are compatible, etc. Cohabitation became a trend in the 70s, but much has changed since that time. In the 70s some 70% cohabitating couples get married, now only 40% or even less. Does it mean that more people go on living without marrying or couples break? (more…)

WOW!!! You are dating a very nice guy. All the girls around envy you. He’s so sweet! Actually, yeah, he was. Is he now?

He gave you flowers and compliments, bought chocolate and asked you for romantic dates, he was so enthusiastic to catch your attention and to keep it. (my heart is melting )

Now one, two or three months or years later you recollect those days with nostalgia. Your dear doesn’t make you nice little presents now, he even doesn’t mind when his friends flirting with you or when you tell him that a stranger asked your number and invited you to a party on Sunday. Nope, nothing of these can shake his confidence that you are his. He lost heart, you are conquered, you? He is absolutely sure, he’s the only one you need.

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So, here we are, and here is sex in our lives. Yep, sex is important, it’s pleasure, intimacy, and of course it’s a significant part of relationships. But most girls are very concerned about having sex for the first time with a certain guy. The thing is that in 90% cases it’s males who take the initiative of having sex. And girls aren’t just ready. Sometimes. So what is the most common time to make sex?

No one can say it for sure, only you. Actually solely you know whether now it’s the best time to have sex, or maybe it’s better to wait until you want your boyfriend as much as he wants you.

You know, the main thing you should pay attention to is your feelings, and not the umber of dates you already had. Sometimes it will take you two weeks to understand that’s the right guy, and sometimes even a minute is enough. But the time of your having sex for the first time is incredibly important for both of you. I don’t mean contraception only, i. e. condoms and birth prevention. I mean the level of your intimacy. (more…)

Holidays are over, roses are gone, sweets are eaten… Yeah, actually it’s only pleasant memories that stay with you forever. And sometimes it can be your feelings… It’s great when they are positive, but what about those awful moments you can’t bear recalling?

In most cases it can take several months till all your wounds are healed and much more time to begin trusting people again. Couples face a lot of problems, but lack of understanding, respect, love and of course those lies are surely the most common ones. Plus, there’s cheating. And when speaking about cheating, who is likely to cheat good-looking people or those not that attractive?

It seems to me that males rarely stuff their heads with such questions, but it’s surely females who go on worrying that handsome guys are more disposed to lying and betraying. A friend of mine dated a guy who had so-so looks, but she thought him Apollo. Her former BF loved going out by himself or with his friends, while she stayed at home, and was so depressed. No wonder they parted soon, and now she has a complex that dating handsome men is a catastrophe. (more…)

So that’s valentine’s boom now. Everyone is busy with buying some unusual and pleasant presents for friends, relatives, and beloved. With flowers you will deal a bit later, maybe on 13 or on 14 February, but now, it’s high time to choose a Valentine’s card to give to your sweetheart. There are tons of them, but the most magnificent, thrilling, and beautiful you will see below.

This postcard is just great for both kids and adults. Any person will melt when looking at such a cute bear!

No one can refuse such a nice bee, she is so happy, has that many hearts filled with love, and she asks you to be Valentine - can you refuse?

This tender white bear will be perfect totell your honey about your deep feelings. Girls just love that sweet teddy bears!

This Valentine’s card will be the best for someone very special in your life. For someone you care about, love, and worry sometimes.

Wish you an amazing Valentine’s Day with your dear who shares your love, affection, and tenderness! Happy Valentine’s Day!

P. S. Thanx to PhotoBucket for great Valentine’s cards!

The most romantic, engaging, and greatest day ever to propose to your beloved, or to tell your secret love about your feelings, or maybe just to say thank-you to your dear intimate friend. It’s surely a special day for everyone both in relationship or seeking one.

So how can you celebrate this incredible day and, most importantly, your love? You can surely decide on a party, but I believe that a dinner with lit candles, flowers, and a table set for two is a much better and more personal variant. Make atmosphere relaxing, fresh, and charming with beautiful china, favorite flowers, soft music, and deliciously prepared meal with your own hands. Put on your best outfits and enjoy the most romantic evening in your life.

A menu can be simple containing fruits and vegetables, chocolates or other sweets, some meat or fish. Choose dishes that are easy to cook, salads come into mind at once. Let them be exotic, but digestible. You can make some gourmet meat, or meat plus potatoes in pots. Think ahead of your romantic menu, note meals should be light for your tummies, because when you are fed up all the place is taken by food and nothing is left for feelings. (more…)