Kiss Don’t Miss

WOW!!! You are dating a very nice guy. All the girls around envy you. He’s so sweet! Actually, yeah, he was. Is he now?

He gave you flowers and compliments, bought chocolate and asked you for romantic dates, he was so enthusiastic to catch your attention and to keep it. (my heart is melting )

Now one, two or three months or years later you recollect those days with nostalgia. Your dear doesn’t make you nice little presents now, he even doesn’t mind when his friends flirting with you or when you tell him that a stranger asked your number and invited you to a party on Sunday. Nope, nothing of these can shake his confidence that you are his. He lost heart, you are conquered, you? He is absolutely sure, he’s the only one you need.

It’s not that you care about roses or sweets too much, you lack attention your boyfriend was very lavish at the beginning. So what has happened?

Any man is a conqueror by nature. Veni, vidi, vici - that’s a common principle. So he is a warrior and he has conquered you. Now you are his.

The main problem is that most men, and yours among them, stop spending much time with their beloved, forget how sweet it was when he kissed you on the back of your neck when you were cooking, he simply refused trying and doing something pleasant for both of you.

What can you do to change the things? First of all, have a look at your photos several months ago. You were happy, joyful, and cheerful there. Are you now? So here is the weapon you will need to begin your own battle:

• Arm yourself with independence. Your own friends, your business life, your social life. Let him feel your world doesn’t orbit him. Yet, he is a big and important part of it. Be with him, but don’t be TOO available.
• Remind him there is a sensual woman near him. Make something unusual: write a love letter, or
  ask him out for a date, or take a picture of yourself with new sexy lingerie on and send it to his email.
• Diverse your sexual life. Stimulate him. Charm him. Tease and please your dear one. Think about phone sex or whatever he dreams in his fantasies.
• Love yourself and respect yourself, and he will, too.

OK, if your darling believes you to be a fortress - show to him you are a good one that should be conquered day by day, night by night. Make him on guard.

Be a prize he wants to win.

Tags: how to keep men interested

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